Parisian moodboard set at Hôtel Costes, featuring nightime terrace view, dinner outfits shots, and a moody bedroom interior . The collage is labelled The Parisian Côstes Playbook

Today’s dress-up scene? Hôtel Costes. The terrace everyone talks about—sometimes in whispers, sometimes in eye-rolls. But when you’re that iconic, mixed reviews are part of the charm.

Let’s be honest: no one’s going there for the food (there are far better places for French cuisine in Paris). But a table here isn’t just a table—it’s a statement: part fashion show, part silent competition. And while this is not a big deal to book a seat inside (pro tip: make a reservations early morning, same day). The terrace? That’s reserved for hotel guests or the inner circle.

Think of it as a membership club... with no official membership. How do you get in? Ideally, you live in Paris, orbit the right nightlife crowd, and slowly become a “known face.” Once the hostess recognises you—you’re in.

But there’s always a wild card entry: show up dressed to impress, channel peak Parisian snobbery (with a smile), and ask with the kind of self-confidence that says “this isn’t my first rodeo.” Sometimes, that’s all it takes.

And if it doesn’t work out? Smile and act like you don’t care too much ( a very chic move). Then ask for a table at the fireplace area—it's cozier, more laid-back, and filled with the kind of sophisticated crowd who don’t need to prove anything.

So what’s the vibe—and how do you dress like you actually belong?
Let’s get one thing straight: if you're coming from Dubai (I live there too, and I know some of you reading do as well), leave the cheesy outfits, sparkly sequins, and ultra-feminine glam at home. Paris by night is a different story—grungier, edgier, more androgynous. Think less "princesscore," more "don't-mess-with-me."

This is the capital of fashion, swarming with models, stylists, and industry insiders. So your best bet?
You either go model-off-duty—undone, cool, like you didn’t even try (but obviously did)—or you go full-on statement, with creative, directional pieces that scream runway, not retail.

I’ve put together a checklist of pieces that’ll help you make that right kind of entrance.